TABOO: ‘Mum ‘bored is now dating married couple (18+)

A mum-of-four who became so bored of her monogamous relationship with her husband began dating a man and his wife.

Simon Berry, 43 (middle left) and his partner Kelly, 42 (far right) started dating married Robert and Emma in 2017. Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

Emma Fedigan, 37, had been open about her sexuality to husband of 16 years, Robert Fedigan, 39, since they got together at 21, telling him she was “pansexual” which is the term for someone who is “not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity”.

But the mum had never had chance to explore her desires as she was busy raising her four sons.

However, three years ago the healthcare professional and her health and safety adviser husband, Robert, decided to plunge back into the dating world where they met fellow married couple Simon Berry, 43, and his partner Kelly, 42.

Robert Fedigan, 39, and Emma Fedigan, 37, have been married for 16 years. But after the mum-of-four became bored, they started exploring their desires.

They were all dating each other, except for the men, Rob and Simon.

Emma and Robert quickly hit it off with Kelly, while Emma also developed a relationship with Simon.

Robert Fedigan, 39, and Emma Fedigan, 37, have been married for 16 years. But after the mum-of-four became bored, they started exploring their desires. Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

“I’m in a very loving relationship with Simon and me and Rob have been married since 2006,” Emma from Perth explained.

“Rob is my best mate and I couldn’t do life without him, but it’s unfair to expect our partners to fill every single one of our needs.

“Love is infinite. It does not end with one person.”

Simon and Kelly, who have been together since they were 16, first met Rob and Emma in 2017 after becoming disillusioned with the Perth swinging scene and explored polyamory as a way of seeking out more meaningful connections.

But the quadruple group’s relationship ended in November last year due to communication difficulties between Emma and Kelly.

Initially Emma broke-up with both Kelly and Simon, but Emma and Simon managed to salvage their relationship after a last-minute, honest chat.

Emma (right) ended her relationship with Kelly (left) but continued dating Kelly’s husband Simon. Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

“I wasn’t willing to let my relationship with Emma go without fighting for it, knowing that communication is key after a week I said, ‘We need to catch up’,” Simon explained.

While they ended up staying together, Simon said jealously is an “issue”.

“It’s just an emotion and you have to deal with it by talking,” he said.

“The benefits are the same in any relationship, intimacy obviously, but it’s nice to have another person to share interests with.”

He said one person can’t fulfil everything. “It’s silly to think they can.”

“Me and Emma had a connection from the start and Rob and me are mates,” Simon said.

“He works away for two weeks and is back at the house for one week.

“If he is home I will come round for dinner and sleep on the couch and if he’s not there I will sleep with Em.”

Emma is now dating Simon (pictured) while still being married to Robert. The pair also sleep together, and Robert is okay with the duo’s sexual relationship too. Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

Emma is now dating Simon (pictured) while still being married to Robert. The pair also sleep together, and Robert is okay with the duo’s sexual relationship too.

Simon is still together with his wife despite his ongoing relationship with Emma (pictured). Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

Simon is still together with his wife despite his ongoing relationship with Emma (pictured).

Rob, who is of Turkish background, told his father and step mum about his unique home situation in December 2017.

“I was quite nervous because she (step mum) speaks her mind. She charmed in ‘it’s weird, but it’s okay. It’s whatever makes you happy’.”

Despite most friends and relatives supporting their venture into polyamory, some of Emma’s family has disapproved of her unorthodox lifestyle and she has since chosen to distance herself from them.

Emma and Robert, with Simon and Kelly, and their children. Picture: Mercury Press/Caters News

Emma and Robert, with Simon and Kelly, and their children.

And while Simon and Emma have no plans of having any children of their own, the mum-of-four has said the option isn’t completely off the cards.

“If I fell pregnant with Simon, I wouldn’t have an issue with it,” Emma said.

“I love giving birth and having babies and caring for them – but babies grow up.

“We’d have to speak about the logistics of it though.

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